In Name or Relationship?
"And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, ‘We
will eat our own food and wear our own apparel; Only let us be called by
your name, To take away our reproach'" (Isaiah 4:1).
Isaiah spoke of a day when the judgment of the Lord would greatly reduce the
male population in Jerusalem so that seven women would seek to marry the
same man in order to take away the reproach of being single. They weren't
interested in a marriage relationship or the responsibilities that go with
that relationship. All they wanted was the man's name and they would do
their own thing and take care of their own needs. It wasn't a matter of love
and intimacy but rather a matter of expediency because of their deep-seated
pride and arrogance.
This verse speaks volumes about the body of Christ today. How many
Christians have come to Christ with the same attitude, wanting His name
without the responsibilities that come with it? How many want merely the
removal of God's wrath and the assurance of salvation without a true
relationship of intimacy? How many want to be called a Christian but at the
same time to do their own thing and go their own way? How many want the
blessings apart from the Blesser?
Many professing Christians are going to be shocked on that day when the Lord
comes for His bride only to hear the words, "I do not know you."
The Gospel of Jesus Christ is far more than having a name or saying a prayer
or going to church. It is about intimate relationship with God. It is about
entering into divine union with Jesus Christ. Paul said it best in
Ephesians: "For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and
be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. This is a great
mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church" (Ephesians
5:31,32). True Christianity is leaving everything else to become one flesh
with Jesus Christ in a husband-wife relationship. It is denying self to
follow Jesus. It is putting the hand to the plow and never looking back. It
is giving up our life to have His life. It is hating father, mother, wife,
children, brothers, sisters, and even our own life in comparison to the love
we have for Jesus. It is eating His flesh and drinking His blood. It is
abiding in Christ in perfect love. This is the meaning of eternal life.
Eternal life is the end product of a holy relationship with Christ and our
inheritance from God. Jesus defined eternal life: "And this is eternal
life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You
have sent" (John 17:3). John expounds on this definition: "And this
is the testimony: that God has given us eternal life, and this life is in
His Son. He who has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God
does not have life" (1 John 5:11,12). To have the Son is to have an
exclusive, intimate, abiding relationship with Him. It is to enter into a
covenant with God based on obedience and faithfulness. "My covenant [on
My part with Levi] was to give him life and peace, because [on his part] of
the [reverent and worshipful] fear with which [the priests] would revere Me
and stand in awe of My name" (Malachi 2:5 Amplified).
To remain in a relationship with God in name only is an affront to the Lord.
Jesus Himself said, "But why do you call Me ‘Lord, Lord,' and do not do
the things which I say?" (Luke 6:46). The very definition of lordship
demands obedience to Him Who is Lord. The scriptures make it very clear that
to enter into a saving relationship with Christ is to forsake our own life
to come under His absolute lordship in our lives. "Or do you not know
that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have
from God, and you are not your own? For you were bought at a price;
therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's"
(1 Corinthians 6:19,20). And yet, how many live as under the lordship of
Christ? How many give Him His rightful place in their daily lives? How many
seek first His kingdom and His righteousness above their own pleasures and
desires? How many seek His will over their own in their everyday living?
Ruth was a type of the bride of Christ. Notice her attitude when Naomi told
her to return to her own people: "But Ruth said: ‘Entreat me not to
leave you, or to turn back from following after you; for wherever you go, I
will go; and wherever you lodge, I will lodge; your people shall be my
people, and your God, my God. Where you die, I will die, and there will I be
buried. The LORD do so to me, and more also, if anything but death parts you
and me'" (Ruth 1:16,17). How many seek Him and cleave to Him with such
bridal love? How many are willing to forsake all that is familiar in this
life to be with Him, to even die for Him if so be His will?
Jesus said that the greatest commandment is to love the Lord your God with
all of your heart, soul, and strength. John defines the love of God:
"For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments" (1 John
5:3). So to love the Lord with all of your heart, soul, and strength is to
obey Him with all of your heart, soul, and strength. Jesus said the same
thing in the Gospel of John: "Jesus answered and said to him, ‘If anyone
loves Me, he will keep My word; and My Father will love him, and We will
come to him and make Our home with him. He who does not love Me does not
keep My words; and the word which you hear is not Mine but the Father's who
sent Me'" (John 14:23,24). Our love for God is defined by our obedience
to God. To say we love God and walk in disobedience is a lie. "But
whoever keeps His word, truly the love of God is perfected in him. By this
we know that we are in Him" (1 John 2:5).
Paul understood the love of Christ. He willingly yielded his life and
everything he had to know Him and be one with Him (see Philippians 3:7-10).
He found the Pearl of Great Price and sold all to purchase it for himself.
And because of this, every desire and purpose of Paul's life was transformed
into the expression of God's will. "For the love of Christ constraineth
us; because we thus judge, that if one died for all, then were all dead: And
that he died for all, that they which live should not henceforth live unto
themselves, but unto him which died for them, and rose again" (2
Corinthians 5:14,15). Paul was constrained by the love of Christ to no
longer live for himself but to pour out His life for Jesus Christ. He didn't
settle for Christ in name only. He "knew Him and the power of His
resurrection, and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His
death" (Philippians 3:10). Paul lived the abiding life of Christ and
discovered the joy of the Lord in the midst of his every trial or
tribulation.
God is not seeking a people in name only. He seeks a people who will worship
Him in Spirit and in truth. He seeks a people who seek to please Him, who
delight to do His will in all things. "For the eyes of the LORD range
throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to
him" (2 Chronicles 16:9). Let us not be found wanting on that day
because we know Him in name only.
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